Thankfulness.... sometimes it is easier said then done!

I am a man with much to be thankful for! But why do I find it so hard to be thankful? Am I selfish? Do I suffer from blessing amnesia? Am I not willing to look at the struggles and see them as blessings? Do I think more highly of myself than I should at times?  Are there times I think less of the goodness of God in my life? Maybe all of the above is true! No not maybe, yes all of the above is true!

I can be very self-centered thinking that the world, my family, my job, EVERYTHING revolves around ME!!! I remember God’ goodness and His blessings when times are good, but forget about it when hard times hit. I can be full of pride and empty of humility when my eyes turn to me and not my Savior! Please don’t be too quick to judge me, because if you really examined your own heart you and I are not so different.

So why is it so hard to see the blessings in the brokenness? Why is it so hard to reflect on the good things in our past? Why do we think more of ourselves than we should? I am not sure! What I do know is that I have to make a decision to praise Him in all circumstances; I have to decide to have a thankful heart despite the situation. Notice I did not say my situation! I do not believe my life can be summed up as a situation. Circumstances come my way but they never have to be permanent. Situations feel permanent!

Circumstances can make you feel like you have been wronged! You did not deserve that! Why would they do that to you? How dare they say that! It is not fair!!!! Does that sound familiar? I know one person who did not echo those words…Jesus! He did not deserve what He got! Yet, the Bible tells us He never said a word. You talk about being wronged! Jesus was wronged! He was betrayed by a friend and rejected by His people; one of His closest followers denied even knowing Him. Talk about being hurt deeply! Christ was hurt deeply, and it may not have been fair but there was a purpose!

 His circumstances where to bring about the Father’s plan for His life … and ours FORGIVENESS OF SINS! Do you see where I am going with this? Our circumstances are to bring about the Father’s plan for our lives… forgiveness, grace, strength, humility, blessings, challenges, hope, salvation etc… the list could go on and on! I want to be like Christ!

So I am going to be Thankful in all situations and circumstances! I am going to praise Him for my family, life, ministry, children, wife, diabetes, etc….  Why? Because God has a plan for me, and my friend He has a plan for you as well! Whatever you are going through today pause for the cause and find something to have an attitude of gratitude!

In Everything Give Thanks

Something to chew on…

September 30, 2012

 I Thessalonians 5:18, “In everything give thanks; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you;” (Not my favorite verse in the BibleJ)

Have you ever had a week where it seemed like everything went wrong? I had such a week: van not running right, renters not paying the rent, criticism that hurt my heart, sickness that kept me home from work, kid issues, football team lost, and to top it off my camper was vandalized.  Man my week stunk!!

Nevertheless God‘s Word to me this week was, ”be thankful!” BE THANKFUL!!!! Are you kidding me?! I don’t feel like being thankful!  I want to be mad, hurt, frustrated, aggravated and downright annoyed at all these little injustices in my life!!

But wait, He tells me that in all things I should give thanks! Find a reason to praise Him because He is so worthy! So here we go: God, I praise You that I made it home in the van! Father, I am grateful that I have renters  in my house so I don’t have to shelter that burden every month. Dear God, thank You for the criticism, because it caused me to examine my motives and my heart! Lord, thank You for forcing me to stay in bed and get rest through my sickness. Thank you for the hard times with my kids so I can really appreciate the breakthroughs. Lord, thank You for teaching our boys that in losing you often gain experience, and Lord, thank You that they only broke a couple windows and that no one was hurt during the vandalism of our camper.

Was that so hard to do? Honestly, yes.. at first. But it became easier as I did it. God never promised us it would always be easy but God’s Word tells us in Romans, “rejoice in hope of the glory of God. And not only so, but we glory in tribulations also: knowing that tribulation worketh patience; And patience, experience; and experience, hope: And hope maketh not ashamed;”

God will work all things for your good and His glory! So be thankful even when it hurts, be thankful when you don’t understand. Because your heavenly Father is at work in your life!

Be blessed

Corey

Reflections on Camp

What do you get when you mix two weeks of camp, the hot Texas sun, eighty kids, rope courses, rock climbing walls, preaching, and let’s not forget ─ the BLOB? You get memories that last a lifetime, fears that have been overcome, friendships that were created, and deeper relationships with Jesus Christ.

I had the honor of taking our middle school and upper school to camp Cho-Yeh two times over the last two weeks. Camp consisted of a low rope team building exercise where the kids were challenged to work together as a team. Some did this easier than others, but at the end of the day, a very valuable lesson was learned. They learned that we are much stronger and wiser together. The students learned that size doesn't matter, and we all have something positive to bring to the table.

We saw kids overcome their fear of heights by climbing to the top of the rock climbing wall and zip lining down. I personally have a thing for lakes. Maybe it has something to do with a certain school administrator and tubing or my lack of ability to swim. Whatever the case, I don't like them Sam I Am! However, I was challenged to slide down into the lake. I reluctantly took the challenge! Hey ─ they said it was only five feet deep. They were wrong!!! I dropped in and let me just say with thirty-something kids watching, you really resist the urge to scream, “HELP!!!!!!” But, as you can see, I survived. I will see you next year, Lake Evelyn!!!

 Chapel was a special time for us as well. Each chapel consisted of my version of Fear Factor ─ otherwise known as "Bible Survival"! The kids were split into teams and given food and physical challenges. Several of our students led in song and prayer throughout the week. The kids were challenged in the first week to overcome the Giants in their lives (Giants such as Peer Pressure, Faith, Trust, Loneliness and Anger) and to trust that God can do the Impossible ─ overcoming impossible obstacles such as sickness, relationships, physical handicaps, and a new school year.

During the second week with our eighth and ninth graders, we focused on leadership, Spiritual leadership, as well as personal leadership. The students were challenged to be the young men and women that God created them to be. They were encouraged to overcome the obstacles to leadership (Obstacles such as "Complacency, Popularity, Priorities, Insecurity and Fear)! We encouraged the students to give these obstacles to God and allow Him to make them into the leaders we see they can be. Anna Peters came and gave a stirring testimony about her life. This allowed the kids to see that we can overcome these obstacles through faith and perseverance.  

We had a sweet time in prayer and discussion with our upper grades. Students prayed for one another and comforted those who were struggling with different issues. We definitely saw God move in their hearts, and we truly believe an eternal impact was made!

One of the highlights of the trip was the Crud War. This lovely obstacle course consisted of three chaperones, twenty-three students and a ton of MUD. It was fun watching students and staff laugh and play in the mud. We were covered from head to toe in mud and gook. Man, it was awesome!!

Major lessons learned from camp:

(1) God is in control - Trust Him with all your heart!

(2)You can do all things through Christ – “Can't” is never an acceptable answer.

(3)Whatever God has asked us to do, He will make a way for us to fulfill His will, and finally

(4) Leaders must lead - Just because they are young doesn't mean they cannot be leaders! They have to become leaders while they are young so they can become great leaders when they are older! 

Camp was a time of refreshing of our minds, relationship building and renewal of our faith. I am thankful that the Lord allowed me to be a part of two great weeks! Now let's rock this world for Jesus Christ and see what our young people can do!

Corey L. Waters

Campus Minister

Cornerstone Christian Academy

 

 

New Orleans Reflections

Lamentations 3:51, “Mine eye affecteth mine heart…” 

Last week I took ten of our 8^th graders to New Orleans (NOLA) for a service project. Little did I know the impact it would have on them! We wanted to do an 8^th grade trip that would be fun, memorable and have a ministry aspect to it. Well, this trip was all that and more. I am going to share some of the stories about the people we ran into. I must admit that when you hear the word “homeless,” your mind goes to different places.  Why can’t they get a job, they are just running from responsibility, they must be on drugs, or my personal favorite, they must just like living this way.

What I discovered is that all this is true and so much more. These people we call homeless/outcast are still people with stories. They were children with dreams and aspirations, and life has somehow brought them to this place NOLA; a place where they walk until they cannot walk anymore. A place where, when they fall asleep, it is in the daylight (with their eyes open) because it is not safe to sleep at night. A place where they have no comforts of home only the rugged feel of a park bench or the wooden steps of a dock. Where dinner may be served from a garbage can while patrons in the expensive restaurant 20 feet away eat like Kings and Queens! The kids learned to look at them through different eyes. No longer eyes of fear and judgment, but eyes of compassion! The following are some of their stories. I hope it challenges and touches your heart like they touched mine!

Torch- His real name is Robert. He stood about six feet tall with dirty blonde hair. His eyes had dark circles around them and his teeth were decayed from years of drug use. He smelled and he looked mean and scary. He also walked up to us after we prayed with a man and said, “I need prayer! Will you pray for me?” Even as I write this, tears swell in my eyes; to hear the desperation in his voice and the look of pure exhaustion on his face. Pray? Of course we will pray! I asked him to tell me a little about himself. He is twenty-eight and has been on the streets of NOLA for 11 years. He has been in and out of jail, married and divorced, feeling hopeless! We talked to him and prayed for him and with him. I wish I could say we led him to Christ but I cannot, however I can say we impacted his life for the kingdom and I trust that God’s word will not go unheard!

Mr. Wendell - Mr. Wendell is a “lifer” on the streets. He has no desire to get out! He makes his living playing the guitar and panhandling. When I asked him about his story he evaded the question. He seemed very content sitting on the dock of the bay wasting time and playing his guitar. He hid his beer can behind his legs so the kids would not see. I appreciated that! He played Christian music and professed his love for God. Yet, I wonder about his soul! I wonder!

Roland – Roland was well spoken and kind. His eyes were filled with hurt and his posture told me his walls were up to protect himself. My friend Scott (he is our history teacher) began a conversation with Roland about how he ended up on the streets. Roland told of how his daughter had died two years ago and he ran away from life because he could not cope with the loss. He left his wife to heal alone; he left his family! Two years later he is still dealing with the same feelings and issues. He told us his wife has moved on with her life and his parents still search for him. He hides from them when he sees them. His shame is hard to bear. He has put walls up to keep the people who love him and those he loves at bay. Why? Because if you do not let people get close to you, then you can never get hurt like that again! He is a runner. I asked him to run to Jesus! Scott and I told him to go to his parents. His comment was, “If I go to them I am going to fall apart.” I told him the story of the prodigal son, how the father was watching for his wandering child. He said he would think about it. We prayed with him and went on our way. I cannot get him out of my mind!

Lastly, I want to share Donna’s story. Donna’s face held years of drinking and drug use. Her wrinkled skin and smoker’s breath were overshadowed only by her unkempt grey hair and a deep sadness in her eyes. We gave Donna a “Blessing Bag,” and spent some time in prayer with her. In return she played us her rendition of John 3:16 on guitar.

One student asked me why so many people say they are Christians, but really don’t look like they know Him. My answer was, “You can know of God without having a relationship with Him.” “This makes them think they are right before Him, but if they have never surrendered their lives and sought forgiveness for their sins, they can have no relationship!” This breaks my heart! I wish I could have done more, prayed more said more to convince them to come to Christ. All I can do is trust that what we did in the name of Christ would make an impression on that city!

Later that day, Donna ran into Anne and Noelle, the other chaperones in our group, and she told them how a preacher and some kids gave her some food and prayed with her! I guess we were not the only ones affected by our trip!

Holding on to Hope

Hope Makes You Not Ashamed

Romans 5:5, “And hope maketh not ashamed; because the love of God is shed abroad in our hearts by the Holy Ghost which is given unto us.” Well it is 4:00 in the morning February 20, and it is my turn to have baby duty! Yes, I said baby duty! Some of you are saying to yourself, “What!!!” Trust me, I said the same thing and more over the last three days. But this story starts a few months back.

In December Kasie and I talked honestly about adopting another child after watching a Steven Curtis Chapman video about adoption. We both thought we were crazy for even talking about it. We prayed and decided that if God wanted us to adopt AGAIN we would but He would have to bring it to us. In other words we were not going to pursue this with our emotions. If this feeling was from God He would direct us. Oh, one more thing:  my wife threw out there that she wanted a baby and it had to be a girl! We talked with our kids and they agreed that if God showed us we would do it.

Let’s fast forward to a couple weeks ago. I get an email from a co-worker saying there is a young lady (we will call her Sarah) who is looking for an African-American family to adopt her baby. Now remember, my beautiful wife is a few shades lighter than the rest of the familyJ

Kasie and I talked and we decided that maybe this is God, and we should follow through as long as He leaves the door open. So I called the adoption agency and got information about fees and what they were looking for. That conversation scared me half to death. However, we decided that if God opened a door we would walk through. So I sent pictures and a very short biography profile of our family to the agency and they shared it with Sarah (this was Monday, February 14). I was told on Wednesday that they had shared our profile along with two others to Sarah, and we made the first cut. We would have an answer by Friday. Both of us were afraid if it happened, and we were afraid it wouldn’t happen

Thursday, February 16 - Kasie is fighting with herself and God about this adoption. “We are getting old!  I am going back to college. Our life just calmed down!”  Then it happened! God told her to trust Him. Proverbs 3:5, “Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding.” So at 10:45 pm she surrendered her heart to do whatever He said!

Friday, February 17- During my morning devotion I decided that no matter what I would praise God. If we were picked I would praise Him and if we were not picked I would praise Him! That afternoon I received an email from the agency saying call us ASAP she picked you and it is a baby girl! I almost passed out. I went to tell Kasie so we could call them together (she was shocked). When we called we found out that Sarah was in the hospital and would be there until the baby was born. She was due March 1, so I am thinking she is going to be in the hospital for a few weeks. Not so! She was in labor right NOW!!! I was in shock. The adoption case worker told me we would have a baby today! So a week and a half ago we are praying about the opportunity to adopt a baby and in less than twenty-four hours I would have a daughter.

Saturday February 18 – Hope Gabrielle Waters was born at 1:45 am, she weighed 7# 2oz, and was 19 and ¾ inches long. We met our new daughter and Sarah at 11:00 am. Wow!! Kasie asked Sarah why she waited so long to decide on adoption. Sarah said, she had one child and thought about keeping this one but a few months ago decided that she couldn’t give the baby the life she wanted for her and felt it was best if she picked out a suitable family for her baby. Do you see the time frame? That was around the same time God began to work on us about another child! God had orchestrated the whole thing and we stand amazed in His presence. This is not about the Waters this is about the Waters’ God!

The kids are excited and they have fallen in love with her. She has Cameron and Noah wrapped around her little finger. Nick keeps saying “Mommy, Daddy, I am so happy!” and Faith? well let’s just say she hasn’t stopped smiling or talking since Friday! Kasie, well she has the biggest smile I have seen in years. As for me, let’s just say she has her daddy wrapped around her little finger. Boy, am I in trouble!

New Things!

January 5, 2012

Isaiah 43:19, “Behold, I will do a new thing; now it shall spring forth; shall ye not know it? I will even make a way in the wilderness, [and] rivers in the desert.”

We are several days into the New Year and the question is are you ready for the Lord to do a new thing?We are expecting God to do great and mighty things, but are we expecting Him to do a new thing?

The phrase, “now it shall spring forth,” in the Hebrew means a simple action that is used to express the "future", referring not only to an action which is about to be accomplished, but one which has not yet begun. Simply put, this is an easy thing that God will do for us! He will help us love in a different manner, get us out of our comfort zone, give us a building for Middle School and High School, and heal broken hearts and bodies.

What new thing do you need God to do in your life? Watch for it because it is going to spring up. How do I know? Oh, did I forget to mention that Isaiah 43:19 is a promise from our Heavenly Father! Take Him at His WordJ

Corey

Reflections from a Father’s Heart!

Lately I have been pondering a lot of things. Maybe because it is coming up on the end of the year or maybe it is because when you turn forty you start really reflecting on your life. This particular reflection is about being a dad, a good dad.

I remember when my son was little he would walk beside me. I would be so self-absorbed I would not notice his little hand reaching up to hold mine. What a missed opportunity to provide security for his little heart. I remember another time when he woke me up while we were staying in a missionary apartment in NJ. I was so tired and angry that I was ugly to him. Maybe my blood sugar was high. Maybe I was just having a bad morning. Whatever the case, he got something he did not deserve. Lastly, I remember when he was five and I was working full-time and planting Open Arms Baptist Church. I was tired, angry, and frustrated with the world. I tucked him in one night and he said, “Dad, you do not like me, do you?” My response, “Bud, I like you and I love you, Dad is sorry for making you feel this way.”  

That was enough! I decided that I would never, ever hear those words from my child again. I had to make some changes. Over the last six years I have made those changes. I take every opportunity to hold my children’s hands & I try really hard not to take my moods out on my kids (or my wife for that matter). I give myself to them so they have no doubt that the D.A.D.D.Y. not only loves them, but genuinely likes them. How did I do it? One word: Christ!

Philippians 4:13, “I can do all things through Christ which strengthens me.” I sought the face of God and I begged Him to give my wife and my kids a better daddy and a better husband.

I asked God to forgive me and then I asked Noah to forgive me! They both forgave all. Why is it I have had such a hard time forgiving myself? This morning I figured it out. My sin has been covered by the blood of Christ and God no longer sees it. However, the enemy tugs on my past and tries to get me to uncover it with a thick film of guilt.

That is not what God has for me or for you. He wants us to ask for forgiveness from Him and those we wronged, even our children. Reconciliation is God’s plan! Stagnating in a pond of guilt and shame is the devils plan.

God always has His hand ready to grab ahold of ours. Because of Jesus we will never get what we deserve! Finally, He not only loves us, He desires a relationship with us. Do you get it? He likes you and wants you!

Maybe you are like me and are living with relational regrets and are wondering what you do about it.  Humble yourself and seek forgiveness then cover it with the Blood and walk away from it. It no longer belongs to you it belongs to Christ!